It is very frustrating to find a job right now and I can understand our frustration. Just don't give up and keep looking. The one who finds the pebble is the one that keeps looking.
Duvexy
Today my life is just fair. I have some good things that are happending in my life and I also have some bad things in my life. I am going to try read a serenity prayer or read my ruins every day to help keep my mind positive. As, with like many who hare here I am in debt and I am just a serf to all the people I owe. I have alot of health bills that I owe when I was unconscious that I was charged and what is sad about that I did not know until after words. Now I all this money yet, I was born for free. :(
I am glad you are doing ok. If you look online on any company you can go look at the end of the page on their website and there may be a link where it will say apply online or work. Just click the link and fill it out. You may be get it. You never know.
Duvexy
I hear you and I understant what you are saying. I can certainly relate as I have CC debt and medical bills but, I have not chosen to file bankruptcy yet. Thanks for contacting me and I wish you are your family well.
duvexy
I am sorry to hear about your situation. I have been through simialar situation three times. I have been homeless several times and I can understand the stress and frustration on trying to get everything done without losing in end trying to micro manage all these rules, and negotiations without losing out on the more important things in the end. Your children are so important. I know I have been there. If I were in your situation I would go back and renegotiate the wording in the agreement in regards to the custody of your children. If you lose your home you could always move in with family members or friends or a shelter. Just because you are on hard times does not give them the right to take away your children. However, children are taken away every year for less then this. I wish you luck and did you get a pre nup before you got married?
duvexy
http://www.freecycle.org/
I use freecycle.org at the top in the search bar put your city info there and click search. You can join that site for you local community where people are giving stuff away.
duvexy
I don't kow much about refinancing etc, but if it were me I would pay off what I owe first a little at a time before I start new projects. That is me though. I hear you though. I have bad credit too.
Instead of making a loan you can call your local state HUD association and file to get a list to live in housing for free. It would be better for you. http://portal.hud.gov/portal/page/portal/HUD
Here is a link you can read to start.
Duvexy
Just to let you know I am not responsible for any financial information nor am I a financial expert. All information is just my free speech right and is just my opinion.
Thank you
in response to dumbo...I have seizures and I have disability. If your Mom gets disability she will have to file for someone to help her from the disability office. There is a website for that.
http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/11000.html#part6
I did not see anythng where is specifically says they will pay you to take care of your Mother. You do need to contact your State to see if they have some programs that can help you with getting your resources met. Also, going to a church is helpful too. I used to my utilities paid from churches. I am sorry to hear about your Moms issues. I have epilepsy and I certainly understand how difficult it can be.
in response to ratava...http://www.freemedicalcamps.com/vcity.php?stateid=TX
http://www.freedentalcare.us/st/texas
Contact the Texas Dental Association Smiles Foundation
I have also gotten reduced care from su clinica familiar. They charge on a sliding scale.
Sorry to hear about your husbands fall and current disability. I know what it is like to live on a fixed income. Just to let you know that I am not affliated with any financial institutions and nor am I an expert in finances. I can not be held responsible either as I am only asserting my free speech rights. I am sorry to hear about the two mortgages that you have and it would not be a good idea to get another one, as even if it did lower your cost it would just lengthen the time you would have to pay it and possibly increase your interest rate. What I would do if it was my situtation what money I would get back from my taxes I would pay back on the mortgages until it is paid off and pay off the payments on the mortgage until you have paid off the house. Making loans and refinancing is really not a good idea. I wish you the best.
in response to No Safety Net...I am so sorry to hear about your situation. It is awful that you have had to suffer this indignity. I really hope life gets a little easier for you as time goes on. I know it has not been easy for you. But, I hope you the best with both with your illness and with your family. It must be hard. I am not a doctor and can not make any suggestions, but I know there is so much information on the internet about herbs, nutrition and excercise which can help some people improve their lives. If you want to talk just stop by here and write it down. I am not here every day but, I do stop by once every now often. I wish you the best and I hope you find away to better your life.
Even if they did have the healthcare will not stop the deaths. Especially you'll keep taking those pills those doctors give you which are nothing but poison. Listen to your T.V. side effects plus the destruction of your organs and the chemical lobotomy you get when you take those drugs.
Wake up folks When your dr give you medicine? Ask him if it has D2 blocking. In other words does it block the chemical signals to the dopomine receptors.
You are being poisoned and you are agreeing to it.
Actually that is not correct. Texas has which run an sliding scale basis in where they can get help with their teeth etc. Also, there are Universities in Texas where they fix Teeth for free. Now most people prefer to get their teeth fixed in Mexico because it is even cheaper then Texas and less rules too. Too much violence though. But, your Texas smear is not called for.
I did not even know I had a vanishing Father until I was 16 years old. I really thought my Step Dad was my Dad. My Step Dad was my Dad as he paid for my food etc. My real Dad did not even come by to see me. My received not assistance to take responsibility for his self in getting my Mother pregnant. He paid no child support and never came around. while at the same time when my Mom told me about my real Dad he accepted me with open arms and all. I love him for that. But, I have been judged to the inner do nut whole of rejected by both my Step fathers kids and my real dads kids. They all can not stand me, and I still write here to say why they it feels bad to be left behind. You know he did even try to find me. :( And, then my siblings try this crap that I was not there as if it was my fault. And, they use that to talk down to me. Blame me for not being there when I was a kid.
You know I'm an awesome seamstress it's one thing I am great at...I only need to figure out financing and a committed group to make it work. The great thing is it could be done
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Female, 32
Henrico, VA, US
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This is my first time on this site. I have been searching online for help just as many of you on here do. I am a wife and mother of 3 children. My husband, oldest child, and I are disabled. We... see full post